I have a granddaughter married to a young service man stationed at Fort Carson. He seems unable to handle the stress of married life, a new baby and being in the army. He has wrecked both his car and his wifes truck. They often do not have food for the baby, or food for themselves, yet he buries his feeling by going out drinking with his buddies and then intimidates his wife if she complaines. The baby was so sick the day before christmas I insisted they go to the hospital or I would go to the media to get them help. If there were no Baby involved, I would not be involved, but at 8 months he is suffering from all of this.
I am ready to go to his CO or to the media. I sent a Box of baby food and am sending more, but the situation is getting out of hand. Please give me information on how to handle this the best way possible.
thank you for any help and advice and Merry Christmas